Recently around sudden, let me feel different from their own and previous. We have too many miss, is thus lost the self. When we want to look more and more people, is not justified in not concerned about their body and mind out? We should not give yourself too many excuses, we are wrong, it should stand tall recognition, and then accepts the consequences of the wrong, even if some wrong can never be recovered, but at least allow us some time after suffering growth.
The ancients said: the ancient world who put the family in the first rule of their country; For those who govern the country, the first of the home; For Qi their home, and cultivate our personal life; Yu Xiu his body, we must begin working their hearts; For those who are its heart, the first of its sincere intention; For sincerity of their views are, first, to his or her knowledge. Realms in the investigation of things.
Just think before passage fluently, logically clear, quite philosophical, pondering its meaning, but instead ignore him grow up the value of goodness attractive. Today read, I can not help but ask myself, past a long time, I doing?
Cause the accumulation of busy with household chores, let us become ordinary. The ordinary version is better, but not lost because of extraordinary vision. When young we want to “put the family” when the elders and teachers praise ideals, and we are convinced that this is a life mission. And today Ruozai so to say, the people around them, even loved ones will inevitably find you childish. But we should be because of fear of negative comments, and give up, other people’s eyes to be a good person?
We should remember the phrase: gentleman’s method is very simple to do, is not self-deception. Do themselves have the opportunity to become a gentleman.
In the past this time, devoted so much time and energy, the likelihood is a matter of “investigation of things.” The so-called investigation of things is to learn the rules, an increase of knowledge of things. However, the years rush, we have forgotten the original purpose of investigation of things. Investigation of things is not to increase knowledge? Growth of knowledge is not to make their own goal in good faith on it? And sincere so that we do not really live up to their own, worthy of conscience of people? Such a person, is nothing more than to be able to embark on cultivating their own road on the right path. Only the right path, we can by words, by practicing to do the right thing to affect and change those people around, so that they can grow. Only achieve the capability, so you can go higher management levels, higher social influence, and thus do more things beneficial to society. That you have enough ability to complete all of this, you will truly be able to complete their ultimate goal of life: carry forward the great virtue. This is what the ancients tell us.
However, today’s society, we see that in order to investigate things and Realms, Realms and more prosperous. We improve the own goal, is to better life. That is the reality, that is, realism needs. It allows individuals to quickly find a way to happiness, instead letting the individual loss of ability to contribute and can not understand them well. How soon can we truly understand that individuals enjoy the wealth brought happiness, far from it than put the family in the sense of achievement? Some people only understand the old argument, and happy to leave. It was his life, are not clear, the final departure time, is worried his family property.
Original, we are all degraded. Small, the teachers and parents to teach under quite put the family in the great goal. Went to college, but many people just want to rule the world in, to become a great high-level government officials or business has. In a few years, entering the workplace, we speak only cultivating a. Leaders are so taught us, do yourself, and leave the others not, is it not so? Degradation to the present, we are only in the investigation of things. The investigation of things is very limited, look at the books on the shelves it, quick tips interpersonal communication, health recipes, quick success, etiquette. Do not know from that day begins, the guidance of these tools occupied the sales of books and charts, everyone wants to study to “Success” and success. However, what is the life of success?
We have been degraded to the first part, we go further down, if even the “investigation of things” do not do it, and people and animals, normal and a fool, what is the difference?
Read the article, a friend, please do not ask me the unexpected thing is. Because he has let me pain, and urged me to want to grow up. I would like to read the article, people can like me, think about what is the ultimate goal in life? 10 million, a million or. . . . . . What other things?